Heather Gay is a well-known American reality TV star, entrepreneur, and bestselling author, best recognized for starring on Bravo’s The Real Housewives of Salt Lake City (RHOSLC) since its launch in 2020. She rose to fame with her sharp wit, bold views, and unapologetic take on her life after leaving the Mormon Church. Heather is also the co-founder of the Utah-based medical spa Beauty Lab + Laser and the author of two books – Bad Mormon and Good Time Girl.
Once deeply embedded in the LDS Church, Heather now calls herself “Mormon-ish,” openly discussing her religious departure and personal transformation. Her journey from a conservative upbringing to becoming a reality TV favorite has sparked both admiration and debate.
Wiki/Bio
| Full Name | Heather Jill Gay (née Deans) |
| Date of Birth | June 29, 1974 |
| Age | 51 years (as of 2025) |
| Profession | Reality TV Star, Entrepreneur, Author |
| Hometown | Carmel, California, USA |
| Current Residence | Salt Lake City, Utah, USA |
| Nationality | American |
| @heathergay |
Physical Details
| Height | 5’7”–5’8” (170–173 cm) |
| Weight | Approx. 70 kg (154 lbs) |
| Eye Color | Blue |
| Hair Color | Blonde |
| Body Measurements | 36-28-36 inches (approx.) |
Early Life
Heather was born in Carmel, California, into a devout Mormon family. She grew up with five siblings and was raised with strict LDS values by her parents, Susan and John Deans. As a teenager, she attended Brigham Young University (BYU) and even served a religious mission in France.
But behind the “perfect” image was a growing sense of discomfort. Heather has spoken about being subjected to invasive questioning as a teen within the Church, something that later influenced her decision to leave. After marrying into a prominent LDS family and later divorcing, she began to question her beliefs and stepped away from the Church — a decision that reshaped her entire life.
Education
| University | Brigham Young University |
| Qualification | Bachelor’s degree (subject undisclosed) |
Heather studied at BYU, one of the most conservative religious colleges in the U.S. She was fully committed to the Mormon lifestyle during college, attending with RHOSLC co-star Lisa Barlow. But post-graduation, her career took a different turn, moving toward business and entertainment.
Family Details
| Parents | Susan Carver Deans, John Deans |
| Siblings | 5 (including Jenny, Nancy, Tyler) |
| Marital Status | Divorced (Frank William “Billy” Gay III) |
| Children | 3 daughters – Ashley (b. 2007), Georgia (b. 2010), Annabelle (b. 2011) |
Heather married Frank William “Billy” Gay III in 2000 in a Mormon temple ceremony. The couple had three daughters but divorced in 2014 after 11 years of marriage. Since then, Heather has embraced single motherhood and often shares how her bond with her daughters has only grown stronger.
Heather Gay Career
Heather co-founded Beauty Lab + Laser in 2017 with Andrea Robinson (now Dre Nord), offering aesthetic treatments like fillers, laser therapies, and skincare. The business quickly became a Utah favorite, opening a second branch in 2022 and even launching a podcast, Live Love Lab.
Her reality TV journey began with RHOSLC in 2020, where she quickly became a fan favorite. She’s also appeared on The Real Housewives: Ultimate Girls Trip, Below Deck Adventure, and talk shows like Watch What Happens Live and Sherri.
Her memoir Bad Mormon (2023) became a New York Times bestseller, chronicling her life in and out of the LDS Church. Her follow-up book Good Time Girl (2024) focuses on life after faith and fame.
Career Milestones
| Milestone | Details |
| Business Launch | Co-founded Beauty Lab + Laser (2017), second location (2022) |
| Reality TV Debut | RHOSLC (2020–present, 111+ episodes) |
| Bestseller Author | Bad Mormon (2023), Good Time Girl (2024) |
| Guest TV Appearances | Ultimate Girls Trip, Below Deck, Sherri, WWHL |
| Speaker Engagements | Listed with All American Speakers Bureau |
Net Worth
| Estimated Net Worth | $3–10 million (as of 2025) |
| Main Income Sources | Beauty Lab + Laser, RHOSLC, book sales, brand deals |
Heather earns from her spa business, RHOSLC salary (around $10K+ per episode), speaking gigs, book sales, and social media sponsorships. Reports suggest she may have received part of her ex-husband’s inherited wealth, though that’s unconfirmed.
Heather Gay Controversies
- Jen Shah Incident: In 2024, Heather revealed Jen Shah gave her a black eye, leading to drama and threats from Shah, who is serving time for wire fraud.
- Loyalty to Jen Shah: Fans criticized Heather for supporting Shah despite her conviction.
- “Bad Mormon” Trademark Dispute: The LDS Church challenged Heather’s trademark filing over her book’s name.
- Monica Garcia Lawsuit: In 2024, Monica Garcia lost a court case for unpaid beauty treatments at Heather’s spa.
- Ozempic and Body Image: Heather’s weight loss and comments from co-stars sparked debates about body positivity and wellness.