Bunnie Xo

Alyssa DeFord (widely known Bunnie Xo) born January 22, 1980 is an American podcaster, memoir author, entrepreneur, and social media personality. She is widely known by her public name Bunnie Xo.

She became widely recognized as the wife of country music artist Jelly Roll and as the host of the podcast Dumb Blonde, where she speaks openly about trauma, addiction, relationships, and personal growth.

Quick Facts / Wiki-Bio

Early Life and Family

Bunnie Xo was born in Las Vegas, Nevada. She has spoken publicly about a difficult childhood marked by instability and exposure to addiction. In interviews and in her memoir, she described living with her father and experiencing abuse during her teenage years.

She became a mother at 15 and later placed her daughter for adoption. In adulthood, she reconnected with her child. These early life experiences shaped much of her later advocacy work and public messaging.

Bunnie has explained that her past included homelessness and struggles related to addiction within her family environment. She often credits these experiences as the foundation for her resilience and drive to build a different life.

Career and Rise to Fame

Before becoming a public figure, Bunnie Xo worked in the adult entertainment industry. She has openly discussed this part of her life and describes it as both financially independent and emotionally complex.

Her public career shifted after meeting Jelly Roll. In 2019, she launched the podcast Dumb Blonde, which features interviews about trauma, recovery, and personal growth. The show has grown into a high-download podcast platform and includes interviews with entertainers, influencers, and everyday people.

In February 2026, she released her memoir Stripped Down: Unfiltered and Unapologetic. The book discusses her childhood, teen motherhood, addiction exposure, marriage, and personal struggles. It debuted high on online bestseller lists and led to a national book tour.

She also operates her merchandise brand through her official website, selling apparel and accessories connected to her personal brand.

Relationship with Jelly Roll

Bunnie Xo met Jelly Roll (Jason Bradley DeFord) in 2015 at one of his shows. The couple married in 2016.

In interviews and in her memoir, she explained that their relationship went through different phases, including an early open arrangement that later became a closed marriage. She has described Jelly Roll as her closest partner and supporter.

She is stepmother to his two children, Bailee Ann and Noah Buddy. Bunnie has spoken about her role in helping build stability within their blended family.

In 2025 and 2026, the couple publicly discussed IVF and surrogacy plans as part of their family expansion goals.

Mental Health Advocacy and Public Discussion

In late 2025, Bunnie Xo publicly shared that she experienced a period of suicidal ideation while taking GLP-1 medication. She later discontinued the medication and discussed the experience in interviews.

She now regularly advocates for mental health awareness, addiction recovery, and open conversations about trauma. Her podcast and book both center on these themes.

Personal Life

Bunnie Xo lives in Nashville, Tennessee, with Jelly Roll. She frequently shares parts of her life on social media, including family updates, business promotions, and mental health discussions.

She has tattoos, including a spider web design, and often speaks about body confidence and personal growth. Despite her public persona, she keeps certain details about her extended family private.

Net Worth & Income

Her estimated net worth is reported between $2 million and $3 million, based on podcast revenue, merchandise sales, and publishing income.